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Lay Your Week Down, Just for a Moment

Some weights are meant to be carried only long enough to understand them, not long enough to break you.

Riya Mattoos

11/23/20252 min read

There is a strange heaviness that settles in the body by the time Sunday arrives. Not the kind that comes from lack of sleep or long hours, but the emotional kind — the weight of all the things you didn’t say, the expectations you tried to meet, the moments where you held your breath instead of admitting that something hurt.

Sometimes you don’t even realise how much the week demanded from you until it becomes quiet. Until your mind finally stops running long enough for the exhaustion to surface. The truth is, most of us go through the week in survival mode. We do what needs to be done. We show up. We push through. But we rarely pause long enough to acknowledge that we are tired in places that don’t have names.

Maybe this week you felt alone in rooms full of people. Maybe you absorbed more stress than your body could hold. Maybe someone’s words stuck to you longer than they should have. Maybe you kept your emotions tucked behind a strong face because you didn’t want to be the one who “complicates things.” Maybe you kept moving because slowing down would mean confronting everything you’ve been avoiding.

There’s a quiet sorrow in that - the sorrow of pretending you’re fine while your heart is begging you to stop.

So let today be the day you finally put the weight down.

Not permanently. Not dramatically.

Just for long enough to breathe again.

Imagine placing the entire week — the disappointments, the anger, the pressure, the self-doubt, the conversations you replayed at night, the emotions you swallowed : right here, in this space. Let it sit outside of you for a moment. Let the burden rest somewhere that isn’t your chest.

You don’t need answers today.

You don’t need to solve anything.

You don’t owe anyone strength right now.

Give yourself permission to be human, not a machine functioning on a schedule.

Let Sunday be the soft landing you didn’t get all week.

Take a long shower and let the water wash off the tension you carried through every interaction. Sit with your thoughts without judging them. Let yourself feel the emotions you were too busy to acknowledge. If tears come, let them — they’re simply your body releasing what your mind has been holding for too long.

Make yourself something warm to drink. Move slowly. Speak kindly to yourself, even if kindness feels unfamiliar. Step outside for a few minutes and breathe air that isn’t filled with urgency. Put your phone away. Put your guilt away too. Resting is not a failure. Resting is preparation.

The world will not collapse if you take today for yourself.

Your worth does not shrink when you pause.

Your life does not lose meaning when you choose recovery over productivity.

Let this Sunday be your reset, not your punishment.

And tomorrow - when the sun rises on a new week : step into it with softness instead of pressure. You deserve to meet Monday with a clearer mind and a gentler heart. You deserve to walk forward without dragging the bruises of this week behind you.

Healing isn’t loud or dramatic. It doesn’t announce itself. Sometimes it’s just the simple decision to rest. To breathe. To step back into your own body with care.

So leave the weight here.

Place it down like something sacred, something you don’t deserve to carry alone.

Let it rest while you rest.

And when you wake tomorrow, carry only this with you:

“I deserve a fresh beginning. I deserve peace. I deserve to move forward with love -- especially my own.”